Orchid Show at the Denver Botanical Garden

Our friend, Martha Birney, recently invited us along with Mart & Bob Larson to join her at the Denver Botanical Garden to view their Orchid Show. We are all members of the Garden, and it is one of our favorite spots in the city in all seasons. My photo library is full of flower pictures going back to the time we first arrived in Denver more than a decade ago.

This show, while not large, did not fail to impress. If you are like us, you can’t pass up the orchids for sale at the supermarket, but given the dryness of our climate and the less than ideal growing conditions in our apartment, we have to treat them almost like cut flowers. You buy them, knowing that the blooms will last a month or, if you are lucky, three; but whatever the time, once the blooms have fallen off, you are faced with the dilemma of throwing them away or placing them in some forgotten corner, never to bloom again & then to be discarded at some later time when plant shelf space becomes scarce. (Actually you can sometimes coax them into rebooking if you happen to have an facing window and a lot of patience!)

But fortunately the Garden has the staff, resources, and conditions to grow a large variety of these lovely blossoming plants. They don’t have a detectable perfume, but boy are they stunning.

We thoroughly enjoyed our visit at the Garden, and then Martha treated us all to a sumptuous meal at a new Indian Restaurant, Curry & Grill 2. The food is wonderful with delicate flavors and just the right spiciness for our American palate. The staff were warm and welcoming and the service excellent. There were just a few other diners, which encouraged us to linger and talk, and we never felt any urgency to leave. We’ll definitely go back & soon.

The time spent with Mart & Bob is bittersweet these days for Martha B and us. They told us recently that they have decided to sell their apartment and move to the Quad Cities to be near their son, Isaac, daughter in law, Megan, and two young grandsons, Ezra & Jasper. Knowing how important Bryn, Joel and Charlie have been to us since our move to Denver, we can’t blame them, but we are certainly going to miss them immeasurably. Almost every Sunday, one of us hosts for brunch and then a very competitive card game of Wizard; we won’t know what to do with ourselves once they are gone!

Science is Dead; Thank Goodness We all Know that the Earth is Flat

Today the Environmental Protection Agency repealed the bedrock scientific finding that greenhouse gases threaten human life and well being. It means the agency can no longer regulate them and the oil and gas industry are free to facilitate pumping more and more CO2 into the environment.

This brings the EPA into alignment with the CDC which says we don’t need to vaccinate our children against many childhood diseases and don’t take Tylenol because it causes autism.

The truth is now suspect, and George Orwell’s Big Brother is watching us all. I hope you find this message as comforting as I do?

Erin & John’s Visit–A Respite from Cuba

After a wonderful two weeks visit, John and Erin left this weekend to return to Cuba, thankfully now nearing the end of their two year assignment. They are slated to permanently leave the island in early May. Since their arrival in the summer of 2024, conditions on the ground in Cuba have deteriorated incredibly. Hunger, malnutrition, and rolling blackouts are the norm; the results of a US imposed embargo & a corrupt and ruthless regime that has no concern for the well-being of its citizens.

Recently they had a scary incident with their cat, Diego, who became very sick and nearly died. Erin first met Diego during her first State Department posting in Mexico City, when he followed her home one day. Fourteen years later, he’s like a child to both John and Erin. When they took him in for an emergency vet visit a few weeks ago, the clinic had neither running water nor electricity and couldn’t provide adequate care for the poor animal. Diego fortunately survived that illness, but they didn’t want to risk losing him if they had to rely on local veterinary care again, so they asked us if we would keep him for a few months if they brought him back to the States.

We readily agreed, even though Sue is allergic to cats, and I am not much of an animal lover. John & Diego arrived first, and when we visited their vet the next day, he was down to a little over seven pounds (down from his fighting weight of 12 pounds) and in pretty bad shape with kidney and heart disease. Still with a little care and lots of love, he is now doing much better. When Erin arrived just a few days later, she could already see how much Diego was improving. In a little more than two weeks he has put on a couple of pounds and seems content to be with the “grandparents.”

Diego will be with us for the next several months…, and, even I have to say he is a pretty special cat and keeps us entertained.

On another front, I have a book to recommend; the title is Theo of Golden, by Allen Levi. I checked out an audio version from the local library and have been enjoying listening to the story. The title character is an 86 year old Portuguese immigrant to the United States, who shows up one day in a small Georgia city (a fictionalized version of what has to be Athens?) Theo, as he insists on being addressed by one and all, is a cultured man who loves art, literature, and music and sees and nourishes the good in people he meets & comes to know. Some might call the book saccharine, but Theo sees the better angels in each and every person; perhaps a lesson for us all. I’d really like to meet a real-life Theo, but perhaps I need to first emulate his kindness and be on the lookout for the good.

Minneapolis

When the occupation of Minneapolis started nearly three weeks ago, I decided not to post about the situation, as everyone who reads this blog knows where I stand vis a vis Trump and his nightmare of an administration.

When Renee Good was murdered by an out of control ICE agent, with little regard for freedom and democracy, not to mention common decency, I again opted not to comment, even though it looks likely that her killer will not be punished or held to account in anyway.

I feel, however, that I must speak out about the brutal murder of Alex Pretti, a VA ICU nurse, who died while trying to help a woman who had been pushed to the ground by a mob of masked and armed ICE agents. These hooligans then turned on Pretti, wrestled him to the ground and shot him in cold blood. He had a gun, and a permit to carry it, but he never once threatened to use it. From the videos that I have seen it appears that Pretti was executed.

Lydia Polgreen of the NYT has called it an “extrajudicial execution by security forces. This is where we are: armed agents of the state killing civilians with an apparent belief in their total impunity.”

Yesterday, after Alex Pretti’s death, the son of a man Pretti had cared for at the VA hospital published a video of Pretti speaking at his father’s deathbed. “Today we remember that freedom is not free,” Pretti said. “We have to work at it, nurture it, protect it, and even sacrifice for it. May we never forget and always remember our brothers and sisters who have served so that we may enjoy the gift of freedom. So in this moment, we remember and give thanks for their dedication and selfless service to our nation in the cause of our freedom. In this solemn hour, we [give] them our honor, and our gratitude.”

I am grateful that the people of Minneapolis are out in the streets protesting this occupation, even in subzero weather. I am heartened that other smaller demonstrations throughout the country are happening as well. We can not let this violence become normal, and the Trump administration needs to be held accountable. I don’t think that it is trite or hackneyed to compare what’s happening in American cities like Minneapolis to Nazi Germany in the 1930s.

Let’s Rewrite History

Yesterday, the White House posted a new version of the January 6th Insurrection, a complete rewrite of history. In this new version, the insurrectionists who attacked the U.S. Capitol on January 6, 2021 were patriots, and “President Trump took decisive action to pardon January 6 defendants who were unfairly targeted, overcharged, and used as political examples. They were not protected by the leaders who failed them.” 

In the election of November 2024, Donald Trump won the presidency and the Republicans captured both the House of Representatives and the Senate. They have the power to pass and enact new laws and to undo and repeal old laws and regulations; they do not, however, have the right to rewrite history, nor do they have the right to sacrifice and destroy our democracy.

After nearly a year of sending masked and armed troops into the peaceable streets of American cities, this administration now thinks that it can unilaterally undo 80 years of rules based peace and kidnap and extract a president of another independent nation. Without a doubt, Nicolas Maduro is an awful man who has killed many thousands of his own citizens and ruled Venezuela as a ruthless dictator, but there are international rules and organizations that are designed to deal with such actors. The Trump Administration did not seek allies to deal with this man in a lawful way, but instead decided to seize the moment in an incredible “macho” use of American armed forces. Clearly, this was not about narco drug trafficking but all about OIL. God knows we need to be pumping and burning ever more oil, pushing our climate ever closer to a complete collapse

America is now in the hands of a billionaire’s cabal which is content to allow Trump to do whatever he wants as long as they are unfettered in their pursuit to make themselves even more rich and powerful, while average Americans find the American dream slipping through their fingers.

I hope and pray that the foundations of our American Democracy are strong enough to resist and turn back this evil tide. America’s midterm elections are set to occur in a little more than 300 days from now–will they? I believe that this our only hope.

“We’re going to run the country…”

Yesterday, the Trump administration illegally invaded Venezuela and extracted the president of the country, Nicola Maduro, without consulting Congress, a clear violation of the War Powers Act.

This preemptive strike is no different than Putin’s unlawful invasion of Ukraine; we have lost the moral high ground. It has so far proven to be very difficult to convince Putin to withdraw from Ukraine and treat for peace to end this nearly four year war. The U.S. now certainly has no moral persuasion to try to convince Russia to do so. What will we do when Xi launches an attack on Taiwan?

ThIs administration is filled with sycophants, and the spectacle of watching Rubio and Hegseth praise the “dear leader” for his courage and vision in attacking Venezuela was nauseating, to say the least. The Supreme Court has given Trump a “get out of jail free card” but his henchmen will not enjoy such treatment.

We continue to treat our allies and friends worse than our enemies. At a press conference following the invasion and extraction, Trump warned Colombia’s president Gustavo Petro that he has to “watch his ass.” He continue by saying “Cuba is going to be something we’ll end up talking about,” and he further warned that “something will have to be done about Mexico.” “American dominance in the Western Hemisphere will never be questioned again.”

While Trump has the time and energy to launch a self-aggrandizing war, he continues to ignore affordability and inflation, the release of the Epstein files, and rising health care costs. I fear the Republican dominated Congress will do nothing to rebuke Trump, but we can only hope that the American people will. Meanwhile, our world is becoming dangerous every day.

Holiday Greetings

2025 is rapidly coming to an end, and we hope that this Christmas Season you are surrounded by family and friends. We celebrated Christmas a little early (December 20th) with Bryn and her family, because Charlie will be with his Dad and we’ll be in the DC area. Joel made one of his usual delicious meals and lots of gifts were exchanged; and, surprisingly, almost everyone liked what they unwrapped or opened—smiles and wows instead of meek little “thank yous.”

Bryn & Joel moved into their first home this April, finding a lovely house in south Denver with views of the Rocky Mountains and space in the backyard for cookouts, picnics and family gatherings and only 15 minutes from us. Bryn has just completed a year as Comptroller with a Denver nonprofit, Focus Points, which has provided services to immigrant families in the Denver area for more thirty years. She loves the work, although it is quite challenging managing 28 separate grants and budgets. Joel is a now partner in his company and fortunately it is very successful.

Erin & John are finishing up what has been a difficult two year posting to Cuba with the State Department. Food & fuel shortages present daily challenges for the average Cuban and visitors alike. They just found out that their next posting is Barbados in the Eastern Caribbean, which they hope will be a lot less stressful than Cuba. We weren’t able to visit them in Cuba but we are already make out plans to visit them in Barbados.

Charlie will be 14 in January and half way through the 8th grade. He continues to love, breaking, surfing, and basketball, and excels at them all. We see him at least once a week, usually when we pick him and his best friend, Dylan, up after school. These days they like to come to our condo to workout in our exercise room or occasionally play cards with us; whatever, we do, there’s always a few minutes to catch up on what’s happening in his life—though I have to admit that a 14 year old boy is not the best of communicators, but we keep at it.

Now we are back east with Sue’s brother John & sister in law Bonnie at their lovely home on the Eastern Shore. John spends weeks pulling out all of the Christmas decorations, and it seems like every room has its own Christmas tree—of course, it takes almost an equal amount of time to put it away! We love visiting with John and Bonnie at this time of year. Christmas morning was incredible—lots of presents for everyone.

We’ll be in the DC area until the 29th of December when we fly back to Denver—where the Christmas Day weather forecast is 75 degrees and bright blue skies. As Thomas Friedman says, Global Weirding!

2025 has been a good year for the Boyers, featuring good health, time for family and friends and some travel. I have been dealing with a detached retinue for the last 18 months; five operations later, the doctors are hopeful that one more operation will be able to restore sight to my left eye—we’ll keep you posted. Just last month, Sue had a double cataract surgery which looks to have been successful, with good clear vision in both eyes and only the need to resort to “readers” for the smallest of print. Hurray!

We made it to Mexico early in the year, with a week at the beach in Sayulita with Mart & Bob Larson and time in San Miguel de Allende where we were joined by Lenore Grunko and Patrick McGlamery. We finished our visit in Mexico City, an incredibly rich cultural city where it is impossible to see and do everything even if you visit again and again—art, museums, music, shopping, history, food. Carole Reedy, a native Chicagoan but now a proud Mexican citizen, is always the best tour guide & pal.

Here’s hoping for a peaceful and prosperous 2026!

Comforter in Chief

Earlier today, President Trump posted on his social media the following:

“Rob Reiner, a tortured and struggling, but once very talented movie director and comedy star, has passed away, together with his wife, Michele, reportedly due to the anger he caused others through his massive, unyielding, and incurable affliction with a mind crippling disease known as TRUMP DERANGEMENT SYNDROME, sometimes referred to as TDS. He was known to have driven people CRAZY by his raging obsession of President Donald J. Trump, with his obvious paranoia reaching new heights as the Trump Administration surpassed all goals and expectations of greatness, and with the Golden Age of America upon us, perhaps like never before. May Rob and Michele rest in peace.”

This man is supposed to be the President of all of the people of the United States. One might hope that he, like most of his predecessors, might feel the need to act like a Comforter in Chief instead of a crazed and angry man, always intent on saying the absolute worst thing possible about people he dislikes, even when confronted by a tragic death.

Where do we go from here?

I have struggled with this posting for a couple of weeks now, and I am still not totally comfortable with it. Our country is so divided, and I know that some readers don’t always agree with me. That’s totally OK, but I feel the need to share my concerns about our country and our democracy.

Donald Trump won the presidential election in November 2024; most commentators says that the number one reason people voted for him was their concern about the economy. Although he only won by a small plurality, he and his administration have often claimed to have a mandate, and he has certainly sought to govern as if he did, overturning norms and frequently ignoring the courts when they tell him he is acting illegally.

The president manages to dominate the news; I was just looking at the NYT online on my phone. As I scrolled through the top 15 headlines, he was mentioned in 12 of them and seldom in a good light: tariffs, ICE raids, Ukraine, and the economy just to name a few.

My biggest concern is what I see as an assault on our democratic norms. The president has sent national guard troops and ICE agents to Democrat run cities all around the country, supposedly to maintain peace and roundup so called “illegal” criminal immigrants. Never mind that most of these cities having falling crime rates and moreover have not asked for any assistance to maintain law and order or restore peace. Recently two national guard soldiers were shot in Washington, DC, and one of them, a 20 year old young woman died from her injuries. Trump has blamed the “crazy left” for these deaths., but he is wrong.

I am deeply sorrow for this woman’s death, but she would not have been shot and died had Trump not illegally chosen to occupy the streets of our nation’s capital. Just a few days before this incidence, a federal judge had declared that the president’s use of masked and armed ICE agents and national guard troops was unlawful; a fact that the president and his administration have chosen to ignore.

The week before Thanksgiving, the Trump Administration presented a 28 point peace plan to Ukraine, which was clearly authored by Putin and the Russian Government. Among the many problems this peace plan contains is a proposal to give away one fifth of Ukraine’s territory to the Russian aggressor. The plan would also force Ukraine to reduce its army and prohibit the country from joining NATO and the EU.

Our Secretary of State seems not have known anything about this proposal and worked with European leaders to improve the proposal. I recently read that Ukraine, with the support of Europe, has rejected the proposal. While the world dithers, though, Russia continues to wage their horrible and illegal war on Ukraine. Every Ukrainian daily lives under the threat of a Russian attack, and thousands of civilians, including many children have died unnecessarily. Ukraine’s freedom is our freedom; we need to do everything possible to maintain their freedom.

Just a few days ago, the Trump Administration released the revised National Security Strategy, which is mandated by Congress. It looks like America and Europe and as well as other allies are going their separate ways. This administration would have us abandon NATO and other security pacts around the world as we pursue an America First strategy. Why are we doing a complete votte-face or about face after we have enjoyed 80 years of peace? How can anyone believe that a world dominated by a few superpowers, abetted by bad actors like Iran and North Korea, can possibly be the correct path?

Now it looks like our current, totally inept Secretary of Defense thinks that engaging in war crimes is a good policy. Despite what the President says, we are not at war with Venezuela. Congress has not authorized a war. Narco-traffickers are not terrorists and trying to smuggle illegal drugs like cocaine and fentanyl into our country is not an act of war, as reprehensible as it is. We do not have the legal right or authority to willy-nilly shoot boats out of the water in the Caribbean or kill shipwrecked survivors after we have blown up their boat. These people are not a threat to the United States. This is a a desperate attempt to distract us from a failing presidency.

It looks like Congress might be beginning to push back on the illegal acts of this administration. I surely hope so. The Supreme Court is completely owned by Trump and his cronies, but most of the lower court judges continue to be willing to tell the President he is wrong, even if he and his henchmen decide not to abide by their rulings.

Finally, how are you feeling about the economy? If you make more than $200,000 a year and are enjoying the exhilarating stock market ride, probably pretty good. If, on the other hand, you depend on Medicaid or SNAP you are most likely feeling uneasy and wondering how you are going to feed your family or pay for your medicines. Most recipients of Medicaid or SNAP are working full time or taking care of children or a sick or aged parent. Finding a place to live is becoming increasing difficult as well. And lest we forget, Trump and his family have increased their wealth this year by FIVE BILLION DOLLARS!

PS: Just as I was getting ready to post this, I heard the news that the US had seized a Venezuelan oil tanker…can a full blown war be far away?

Axolotls and other musings

The word for the day is axolotl, a salamander native to Mexico that is capable of regenerating all of its limbs. It is exotic and cute, but also endangered.

Sue and I watch too much television and not all of it is worthwhile, but CBS Sunday Mornings almost always is. Produced by CBS News, it has your usual news stories that you would expect, like this week’s lead story about the ongoing government shutdown. We don’t really watch it for the news, though; what delights us are the interesting “good news stories,” like the one on last Sunday’s broadcast about axolotls and a little girl who loves them. I urge you to take a couple of minutes to watch the linked video, and I guarantee it will bring a smile to your face and warm your heart.

Sundays also usually mean brunch with our good friends, Mart & Bob Larson and Martha Birney. We take turns hosting brunch with each household having its favorite or traditional dishes, ours being soft boiled eggs or French toast, always with a side of bacon. Bacon being the gateway drug for backsliding vegetarians.

Brunch is invariably followed by a couple of rounds of Wizard, a modern card game that is easy to learn, but challenging to master, requiring both skill and luck. Wizard brings out our competitive instincts, as we all like to win, but mostly it is just fun being together, laughing, bantering, teasing and imbibing a Bloody Mary, mimosa or Aperol Spritz or two.

Yesterday we extended our time together by going to the theater to see a late afternoon screening of the new film, Nuremberg, featuring Russell Crowe and Romi Malek. Sue and I have long enjoyed going to the movies. (It has often been our go to “date night.”) We have been going to fewer movies though recently–your superhero blockbusters or dreary dramas that feature the F word used as a noun, verb, adjective and adverb, spiced with violence don’t really interest us.

Nuremberg, which tells the story of the post World War II Nazi war crimes trial, is different: a thought provoking, well-produced film that speaks to history and today. The leading actors both give tremendous performances, especially Russel Crowe, who plays a mesmerizing Hermann Göring. It is two intense hours, but all of us found it absorbing. Towards the end of the film, years after the end of the trial, Malek’s character, Douglas Kelly, an Army psychiatrist who spent many hours talking with and listening to Goring, reminds us that not all Nazis come wearing “funny uniforms.”

Finally, as most of you know, I like to read, but don’t often read non-fiction, but these last couple of weeks I have been listening to Jon Meecham reading his own work, And There Was Light: Abraham Lincoln and the American Struggle. Few writers should read their own books, but Meecham, a history professor at Vanderbilt University, is a wonderful exception. He’s possessed of a beautiful baritone voice and a great reading style. Llistening to the book is both entertaining and enlightening. As Mark Twain said “history doesn’t repeat itself, but it often rhymes.” Hearing about our country’s history leading up to and during the Civil War gives new meaning to the events of today. Give it a try.